Brother's Keeper

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By sligobay

Pope Benedict XVI Confesses Catholic Child Abuse

As the winter solstice coincided with a lunar eclipse, the three magi aligned in the Heavens and Pope Benedict XVI openly confessed Catholic clerical child sexual abuse to his Cardinals and Bishops. He did not ask for forgiveness nor disclose any sin (crime) that had not already been irrefutably established before secular authorities in Ireland, Germany, the U.S.A. and elsewhere.

As the earthly successor of the Apostle Simon Peter the Rock, the cornerstone of the foundation of the Roman Catholic Church, Pope Benedict should have led by example but failed. Centuries of concealment of endemic sin (crime), warranted an acceptance of responsibility as a bare minimum if there is to be any reconciliation.

Addressing the Curia, Pope Benedict claimed humiliation of the Catholic Church relative to child sexual abuse reports this year. Actively concealing criminal acts by church officials is also a crime but this was not specifically addressed. Pope Benedict urged reflection upon the role of the Church in allowing children to be victimized by priests.

Pope Benedict XVI deflected responsibility upon moral laxity of society, and said:

"We are well aware of the particular gravity of this sin committed by priests and of our corresponding responsibility. But neither can we remain silent regarding the context of these times in which these events have come to light. There is a market in child pornography that seems in some way to be considered more and more normal by society. The psychological destruction of children, in which human persons are reduced to articles of merchandise, is a terrifying sign of the times."

Pope Benedict cast blame on society and its indulgence in pornography and sex tourism. He claimed that sexual permissiveness of the 1970's influenced the predatory priests.

Though the inclusion of the subject of child sexual assault in the annual address to Cardinals and Bishops is important, there was no stated intention to disclose information that is not already publicly known.

It has become common knowledge through the secular sources that child abuse is endemic in the Roman Catholic Church and has become institutionalized. Because the light of the media has been focused upon the most egregious child sexual assaults, the physical child abuse by Catholic nuns and priests remains in the shadows.

Physical Child Abuse and Corporal Punishment

Education, through its curtailment of corporal punishment, has made great progress in a generation. Society has evolved, as well. Media attention to extreme cases of child abuse historically have advanced the cause of child protection. The publicity has been the impetus for the recognition of the problem by governments and justice systems globally.

The full extent of the horror of the past will never be known. Too many victims have silently carried their suffering to their graves with them.

Today, there is an awareness of past abuses and our legal systems have been adjusted. As we progress as a global civilization in the twenty-first century, corporal punishment of defenseless children must be confronted and outlawed around the world.  The trauma suffered by child victims lasts a lifetime.

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Brothers' Keeper

Don’t tarry along the pipeline

As the morning bell is rung,

With a brother who is younger

As the final clang is clung;

ooOOoo


Dash across the street without care

Ignore the boy’s cry to stop,

Rush to catch the moving line

Score the point in ‘dodge the cop’;

ooOOoo

Pay no mind to the patrol boy

Though he wears the safety stole,

“It’s better safe than sorry”

Cried the star of the school patrol;

ooOOoo

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Cloudbreak
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“Be on time!” their mother chided

“Don’t dally!” her stern command,

“Mind your brother!” she had guided

“When you cross the street, hold his hand!”

ooOOoo

Sunshine Horses
Sunshine Horses
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Childish stroll across the meadow

Flouting lockstep march to school,

Court the lure of youthful leisure

March in cadence is the rule;

ooOOoo

St. Patrick at Tara
St. Patrick at Tara
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Where in Hades was St. Patrick?

Who’d guided them to school each day,

Older brother left them lingering

Idle innocence fell away;

ooOOoo

A choice in haste is never sound

To toe the line or bend the rule,

Go the distance to the crosswalk

Or dart the distance like a fool;

ooOOoo

Ferris Wheel of Fortune
Ferris Wheel of Fortune
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Whether he led or just followed

Is a fact beyond recall,

Charged to mind this younger brother

Or bear the brunt of fumbled ball;

ooOOoo

Safely ‘cross this minor roadway

Both dashed to join their queues,

Queasy boy with guilt uneasy

Class door broached with fierce bad news;

ooOOoo

Sligo Bay
Sligo Bay
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Meek younger quaked in custody

Trembling finger found its place,

Childish gasps escaped in chorus

Blame and shame espied disgrace;

ooOOoo

Bandoliered with tin badge shining

Highlighting wrong with reddened shame,

Stood the star of the school patrol

Fearless witness to lay the blame;

ooOOoo

Clearing Skies
Clearing Skies
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Arrested by the rising star

Whose brilliance dulled the gloom,

Terror gripped two fearful souls

Approaching their impending doom;

ooOOoo

Released due to his tender years

Back to first class, he took flight,

Bad example led him astray

Evil would be taught wrong from right;

ooOOoo



Sister Lucy loomed, board in hand

Terrified child bid to bend,

Rage displayed, bestial nostrils flared

Innocence slain at childhood’s end;

ooOOoo


Hardwood was felled against the child

Childhood pleasures were strewn behind,

Pain stooped fragile body with age

Crushed a body and set a mind;

ooOOoo


Tears welled deep in childless pupils

Wimpers withheld, willed away,

Fear recoiled through seething anger

Defiance donned its brave display;

ooOOoo



Both heart and habit dyed in black

Lucy’s four vows lost their sheen,

She laid a second to his back

“Bad boy! Confess! Renounce your sin!”

ooOOoo

Wobbly knees buckled and gave way

Genuflecting to the floor,

Naïve faith prayed for God’s mercy

The Board of Ed struck once more;

ooOOoo


Our Lord fell thrice at Calvary

Roughly raised to meet his fate,

No mercy spared child from strike three

This person of God taught hate;

ooOOoo



Stubborn pride of youth submitted

To power of God’s Nun severe,

Pained sobs confessed wrongs committed

As faith devolved to abject fear;

ooOOoo


Punishment

Colorful Sky
Colorful Sky
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“Now then, you’ve learned God’s harsh lesson”

“Never cross the street on your own”

“Thank dear sweet God for your blessing –

that you weren’t killed crossing alone”;

ooOOoo


Red shame now ghostly white spectre

Head hung, bowed, just second class,

Confused. How could he respect her?

Forlorn and cowed. Shattered glass.

ooOOoo


Small thoughts collide, lost in query

Small feelings hurt, maimed by shame,

Uncertain insecurity

Hard lessons of violence and blame;

ooOOoo


Rising Sun
Rising Sun
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News hurried home upon the wind

That the lad had family shamed;

Leather strap confirmed he had sinned

No mercy was that day ordained; 

ooOOoo


No excuse could gain a pardon

Or explain misdeed away,

Feigned remorse was just extracted

No appeal for mercy sway;

ooOOoo


Masks
Masks
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Next day went this criminal child

Head hung low in pure disgrace,

Shame and guilt – essential badness

Had firmly found its nesting place;

ooOOoo


beach horizon
beach horizon
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Where went this child’s blessed goodness?

That Christ Himself had once embraced,

Lone child – no loving God would bless

A cherub from heaven – displaced.

ooOOoo


oooOOOooo

Gerry Gilligan

Copyright 2010, All Rights Reserved

Pseudonym: Sligobay

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... in the eyes of a wounded child.

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sligobay profile image

sligobay Hub Author 17 months ago

Best wishes for a very Merry Christmas and a Happy, Healthy and Prosperous New Year in Lucky '11, to one and all.

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always exploring Level 8 Commenter 17 months ago

Well i guess i'm the first to read and comment.I watched the videos and felt the horror for the children at the hands of the pedophile priests.Your poetry,'Brothers'Keeper'is so very beautiful,yet heartbreaking.I always pictured, in my mind, how sweet the nuns were,how they sacrificed to serve God.I see how cruel some can be.I believe the Catholic church should be brought before the courts,paying money to the victims is not enough.Thank you so very much for writing this poignant story.God Bless you

Cheers

Have a wonderful new year!!

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sligobay Hub Author 17 months ago

Hey Ruby- The experience described by the poem was the end of my innocence - shattered glass. It wasn't the same as yours, but as in "The Glass Menagerie", children are fragile little glass figurines which are so easily shattered. One of my friends who passed last year was sexually abused by a nun and died an alcoholic death. Thanks for reading and commenting.

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Amy Becherer Level 7 Commenter 17 months ago

This moving poetry is as beautiful as your heart of compassionate outrage. It is like looking in a mirror. All I can say, through tears, is thank God for you and those that see the damage done to the purest of humans in the name of religion.

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sligobay Hub Author 17 months ago

Thanks Amy, for your visit and comment. My 'compassionate outrage'ignites the words which flow from my fingertips and emanate from my heart. There has been so much harm done in the name of God in so many violent and selfish contexts but we will each face a final judgement. Have a blessed Christmas.

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MartieCoetser Level 8 Commenter 17 months ago

sligobay, you had an awful, horrible experience! OMG, how can we ever forgive them? It is in cases like this I query the Christian principle of ‘forgive like God has forgiven us’.

The Pope opened your wounds again. So now it’s bleeding all over again. (Will it ever stop being so sensitive? You said it yourself: “The trauma suffered by child victims lasts a lifetime.” And I agree with you. One does not always feel the pain, but when one has to run fast, or jump high, or bend, the pain shoots up and become unbearable. “Crushed a body and set a mind” – is exactly what they did! And still do!?

All the Pope needed, was one sentence in his speech. “May God have mercy on our souls and give us the wisdom and strength to do His will.”

I wish you lots of love and lots and lots and lOtS of peace, my friend, for this season and the entire 2011 and thereafter.

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sligobay Hub Author 17 months ago

Thank you so much,Martie, for your very kind and empathetic words. I agree with your suggested amendment of the Pope's speech. May the peace of Christ be with you. Gerry

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epigramman 17 months ago

...your hubs are masterstrokes of art and poetic perfection and that is the reason I am so glad to see you back here ......and of course you are my friend - a true appreciation of the Christmas spirit all year round!

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sligobay Hub Author 17 months ago

Colin, you are most certainly one of the finest gentlemen, skilled humorist and creative artists whom I've ever had the honor to know and befriend. I am truly humbled by your generous praise. "Masterstrokes" and "perfection" are expletives which stroke my ego which is too battered to accept without feeling essentially unworthy. I am so much more programmed to accept criticism rather than praise. May the tidings and spirit of Christmas dwell in your heart and your home, tomorrow, throughout the New year and forever. Slainte.

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Nell Rose Level 8 Commenter 17 months ago

Hi, I watched in horror when I saw this on TV, it always reminds me of that film set in Ireland, The magdalene sisters, I think it was called. Horrible. I am so sorry that you had to experience this, and your poem was spot on. I also wanted to add that I love your photographs, they are fantastic. I hope that one day the Catholic church will wake up and realise that they are there for a reason, and not to hurt young children, all the best for Christmas, and hugs to you across the pond! nell

Tantat-Tartan 17 months ago

Poem Titled:Unspeakable Acts.

Unspeakable acts have taken place

In the churches of so called grace

The clergy hide under their steeples

And deny these affronts to the people

Their victims are left in a shattered state

And for justice long have to wait

A case in fact I'll relate to all of you here

About a girl so innocent and dear

She had the displeasure of a priest fondling her

In the vestry where God's eyes were turned away from her

On a short sojourn back to our town

She refused to enter the church grounds

Memories of this event are etched in her head

And her memories will never be properly put to bed

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sligobay Hub Author 17 months ago

Greetings Nell: Because you saw the magdalene sisters, you have an informed perspective that many lack. Thanks for your empathy and human indignation. When the same or worse happened to the next child, we were happy to have gotten the dose of correction which we got and lived in fear of the next retribution. There are enough victims of this violence and intimidation to merit a separate category of psychiatric diagnosis in the medical books, like PTSD, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, maybe the same, PTSD : Post Theology Stress Disorder, because child abuse has not been confined to Catholics. Merry, Merry.

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sligobay Hub Author 17 months ago

Hello Tantat-Tartan: Unspeakable Acts is a fine poem which deserves its own Hub Page rather than just a comment on my humble page. If you are not a Hubber, go to my profile page and click on Hubs123 in blue hyperlink and join us. Best wishes for a Merry Christmas.

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maven101 Level 5 Commenter 17 months ago

Gerry...You have no idea how much this affected me and brought back long-buried and best forgotten memories...

I served Mass for several outstanding priests, men that were the very embodiment of what a priest should be...men that encouraged me during my youth to seek higher education when I left their orphanages...They backed up their advise with money and scholarship opportunities...I cling to these memories and refuse to allow the despicable and unconscionable actions of one of their cloth take that away from them...

This priest, Father Tuttle, at St Vincent de Paul in San Rafael, California, ( yes, I'll name the SOB ) looked like a miniature Santa Claus...no wonder he gained the trust of so many of us..He violated that trust in the most degrading ways possible...You do not need the details, suffice that he was " creative " in his mentoring and " therapy "...He died in 1969, shortly before I returned to the orphanage to personally thank Frs. Rogan, Baccagaluppi, and Crahal for their letters and support I received while in Vietnam...I, and dozens of other former altar boys that served this monster hope he is roasting in hell...

Gerry, you have writ one of the most heart-rending, honest, and defining poems on childhood tragedy I have ever read...Your gift is such a blessing for all of us here in HubPages and I consider myself fortunate to count you as a friend, whose Irish soul is unbounded with poetic expression...

Merry Christmas, my friend, and may the New Year be one of discovery and love for you...Larry

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sligobay Hub Author 17 months ago

Much love and may the peace of the Lord's birth outlast the pain and anger of harm by individuals who learned to harm at the hands of another. Each one teach one or dozens. This epidemic of injury during childhood is the skull and crossbones of our culture and civilization. As those who have found spiritual healing, we must forgive our trespasses against us, by forgiving our trespassers. Easier said than done. We must restore rather than vilify those who were victims before us. This behavior is learned and therefore can be unlearned in the light of Christ's Peace. Merry Christmas to all and to all a good night.

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sligobay Hub Author 17 months ago

Much love and may the peace of the Lord's birth outlast the pain and anger of harm by individuals who learned to harm at the hands of another. Each one teach one or dozens. This epidemic of injury during childhood is the skull and crossbones of our culture and civilization. As those who have found spiritual healing, we must forgive our trespasses against us, by forgiving our trespassers. Easier said than done. We must restore rather than vilify those who were victims before us. This behavior is learned and therefore can be unlearned in the light of Christ's Peace. Merry Christmas to all and to all a good night.

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onceuponatime66 16 months ago

This is such a great hub. I agree to forgive others and ourselves and it is easier said than done. I like the saying, that until you walk in another man's shoes, don't judge them! I also like the saying that I thought I had it all until I met a man with no "feet." He was injured in a war (landlines). Yes off topic sorry. I am grateful for your hub and learning this.

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sligobay Hub Author 16 months ago

Thanks for your visit and appreciative words.

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Micky Dee Level 4 Commenter 16 months ago

Beautiful write sligobay! We are our brother's keeper and our children are our treasures. God bless you!

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sligobay Hub Author 16 months ago

May God keep you in his embrace, Mickey Dee. We must treasure our real 'treasure' rather than crave 'fool's gold'.

gmwilliams Level 7 Commenter 3 weeks ago

sligobay: This was an excellent and poignant hub. I have known people who confessed to me that nuns routinely spanked them because the former did not like them! A co-worker of mine, a good student, told me that a nun routinely singled her out for corporal punishment because the nun just did not like her. Yes, corporal punishment was routine in Catholic elementary schools in the 1960s. Glad you brought this to light!

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sligobay Hub Author 3 weeks ago

Thanks gmwilliams for your visit, comment and confirmation (not the sacrament). I witnessed more than I experienced which was the terror of the institution. The "fear of God" was the lesson of each day.

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