21st Century Heroine Fights Addiction and Ghosts of Christmas Past

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By sligobay

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Respect

Rarely in our lives are we privileged to know, never mind befriend, a genuine heroine. Many religious persons choose to worship icons or what the icon represents. Others choose to become infatuated with the talents of others or their celebrity. And still others choose to revere the quality of the character of historical figures and their philosophies, their works and their accomplishments.

Respect does not come lightly. Respect is earned not awarded. Respect is often demanded by parent from child. Respect is often expected by those in positions of power and authority. Respect is an element of human dignity to which each individual is entitled by virtue of a common creator.

The concept of respect is not discussed often enough today and yet it is the thread of the fabric of humanity. "Respect your elders" is a common lesson of youth, and yet it seems to have been laid aside in many modern societies. In the tribal societies from which we have emerged, the once-valued quality of wisdom was specifically associated with our elders.

The trials and tribulations of life and survival color the content of our character. Some are subdued and surrender to their challenges. Others surmount their difficulties. Episodes of resilience of the human spirit engender hope in the hearts of others equally challenged and gratitude in the hearts of the majority who have been spared the experience.

Respect is due those who serve as beacons of hope for those who are trudging through the travails of injury and harm. Those who light the darkest paths with their own eminence are most worthy of our respect.

There was a girl. She endured so much pain and harm at the hands of another. She suffered and suffers still. Yet, she survived to tell the tale. She has earned the respect of all who know her and know of her. Kimberly is a 21st Century Heroine. She has my respect.


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There Was A Girl


Broken ballerina pirouette

Shocking therapy won't forget

Monstrous vicious assault with no regret

Anesthetic injections pain you yet;

ooOOoo

Rainn pours loudly to numb your ears

Rainn pounds friendly throughout your years

Rainn falls softly to wash your tears

Rainn mists lightly to quell your fears;

ooOOoo

Spirit reigns on our mortal Earth

Heal the ravage to your self worth

Spit the pain in the beast's own eye

As your essence chooses not to die.

ooOOoo

Hugs from sligobay

© Copyright 2011 Gerry Gilligan - SligoBay with all rights reserved.

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Nan Mynatt Level 3 Commenter 11 months ago

Reflection is the key to going forward and never return to the habits that held you down. Life is complicated at best and we all try to escape from our sordid past. To me God, faith is the key, I walk by faith and not by sight! Your writing is of great human experience. I marked you up.

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sligobay Hub Author 11 months ago

Thanks Nan for your visit and reflective thoughts. Thanks for your wonderful support.

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bbnix Level 5 Commenter 11 months ago

My man Sligo. I had but one heroine in my life, my beautiful Robin, 32 years together, but never in my life had I known one such as Kim.... who exemplifies "hero"...

Overwhelmed, overwrought...torn between a dozen emotions...nearly destroyed...nearly alone...by one incredible woman...

I've fought back to my center..transformed my life...my marriage...and my future...all by this quiet spoken, unassuming, unpretentious gift of a human being, and genius of a writer...nay...beacon...

But I want, more than anything else, for my life to no longer be about me.

Hopefully, Kim will allow me to be part of her lifelong healing process...and yes..I'll selfishly enjoy the experience...for any moment with Kim is one of my life's most majestic experiences...

But if nothing else...I want my life to be one where she realizes just how much she is part of what I do, who I am, and just how powerfully I want to help others..

Kimberly has changed my life in so many ways, I can never repay her.. I can only dedicate my efforts to help others to her... and hope she knows one day just how much I truly loved her..

Godspeed my friend.. we have much work to do...

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Reynold Jay Level 6 Commenter 11 months ago

I enjoyed this very much. You have this laid out beautifully and it is easy to understand. Keep up the great HUBS. Up one and awesome. Hey! I'm now your fan! I am working a series of 5 novels Seeds from Heaven that touches on a lot of the things you mention. It is now published, “Lean against the Wind” as of this week

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kimberlyslyrics Level 6 Commenter 11 months ago

G

I had never seen the Rainbow Galaxy before. O so beautiful. A place I wish secretly now wish to visit

My first reaction of thought is I bet that's where you come from.

I am more than choked up. You have once again given me validation which for years was all I needed and could not get. Validation is what fills my heart to heal and move on. You have gifted me with this more than I know you even know

I have lost count how many times I have read this and understood Chris when he read and got completely choked up. He is so grateful and has yet to miss one of your writings in the past year. He sees your support and calls you an great gentleman.

Well for me, I still call you a giant amongst men. Someone whom I don't feel deserving of such kindness, so much so I get afraid because I fear loosing this friendship, couldn't deal with that

Time after time, caught up in circles, sometimes I picture you and you say 'if your lost, you can look and you will find me, time after time, time after time'

I am not sure you could relate to what it feels like to have someone you truly and greatly respect say to you ' you have my respect' as it causes you to loose breath for a second than blow a hurricane of wind into your sails. I hope you have.

As a very sensitive girl, I take everything to heart, and don't give you the respect you deserve, example I didn't know how to express my thanks as it was you who kept me going every day, for so many days during dads death, and your so humble and subtle.

The lakes and Pines bleed of beauty and grace. It's times like these I can't replace and it's times like these no one can erase, never ever

I am trying to say thank you Gerry, I love you and also want to thank you for everything you are and all that you are not, thank you for showing me for the first time in my life what a real friend is

Thank you for giving me dignity back, as I could have only received this from someone who greatly has my respect

Thank you for you

God bless

funny my i pod is on, ironic as the Irish group Masterless Men just came on singing Molly Malone

xo

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always exploring Level 8 Commenter 11 months ago

Gerry, Your tribute to Kimberly is wonderful. I follow her. Her writing is so natural, sometimes funny, sometimes serious, always pertinet with a message. Thank you.

Cheers

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kimberlyslyrics Level 6 Commenter 11 months ago

Sligobay,

hi!

They can never take away my truth the question is; can you handle mine? And you did

forever and a day times like this last

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Chatkath Level 6 Commenter 11 months ago

Gerry, I follow Kimberly as well, and I am truly honored - I have found inspiration in her being, stemming from my own dark struggles of yesteryear that haunt me still, and I see hope in the fragility of a beautiful broken ballerina pirouette whose strength and survival shines through. I hear and echo your respect.

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Nell Rose Level 8 Commenter 11 months ago

Hi, lovely tribute to Kimberly, I must admit I have not been over there for a while, I have no idea why! I will go pay her a visit and say hello again, cheers nell

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blondey Level 3 Commenter 11 months ago

Hey sligobay,

:) I've never been a fake like some people can be, I write with honest dignity... And I can see you are honest and "true blue" for lack of better word, This is great, I like it, tribute to Kimberly, You know her well, I sometimes envy how cool she is...a survivor like myself..but with sexy style.

Yeah I like it alot. Great hub. thanks!!!

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b. Malin Level 7 Commenter 11 months ago

I am Never disappointed when I come to your Hub Page. It is always a Wonderful read, and your Poetry always Top Notch. Of course the Videos aren't bad either! Your Tribute to Kimberly is something to be hold. Thanks for Sharing so much of your Thoughts today.

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Nellieanna Level 8 Commenter 11 months ago

Beautiful, Gerry. . .

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sligobay Hub Author 11 months ago

Boyo Boy: I've gotten so far behind on replies to my comments. I apologize to one and all. BB, our new friendship means mountains to me and I value your mad writing skills immensely. Your words are invariably artful and your sentiments range from playful to rascallian to sincerity. Your love and admiration of Kimberly are shared by many. Thank you for your visit and lovely comments.

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kimberlyslyrics Level 6 Commenter 11 months ago

Yo sligo,

cool hub mate

who's this kimberly?

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sligobay Hub Author 11 months ago

She's a joy to behold.

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sligobay Hub Author 11 months ago

No my friend, the good fortune is all mine.

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sligobay Hub Author 11 months ago

bbnx you really make me feel clever for creating the Wizard of Oz metaphor. "Want to play ball, scarecrow?" How'd ya like a ball of fire?".

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kimberlyslyrics Level 6 Commenter 11 months ago

I'm confused

And no one touch my galaxy, it's mine 'K?

:D

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kimberlyslyrics Level 6 Commenter 11 months ago

bb

I'm confused again

sigh

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sligobay Hub Author 11 months ago

The Rainbow Galaxy belongs to Kimberly. I deeded it to her in the 21st Century Hub. Why so confused, K? Are you drinking bbnx protein shakes?

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kimberlyslyrics Level 6 Commenter 11 months ago

no just shakes

oooOooo

mine i say mine all of it i don't share and clearly have no regard for punctuation or spelling

i'll figure out have the two have to do with each other

bback

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kimberlyslyrics Level 6 Commenter 11 months ago

bb

i don't hold hands or capatalize my i's

geez and spelt big word wrong

deal with it

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kimberlyslyrics Level 6 Commenter 11 months ago

just saying!

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sligobay Hub Author 11 months ago

Kimberly and BB- Just got in from a meeting. You'll notice that I changed the caption on BB's sculpture to remove him from K's Rainbow Galaxy and place BB's "kiss Monster" in his beloved "crab nebula". The crabby kiss monster is rather colorful now though. This will secure Queen Kimberly's exclusive reign over the Rainbow Galaxy where her royal highness may reign where the rainnfalls and waterfalls and rainbows dwell forever. There is only JOY and never sadness in the realm of the Rainbow Galaxy. JOY IS COLOR AND COLOR IS JOY.

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saddlerider1 Level 7 Commenter 11 months ago

Sligobay you couldn't have chosen a finer, loving, caring, helping and all round genuine person to give tribute to. Kim has helped more people than I think she realizes. In her poetic fashion, her twists with words, her educating the many on the hardships of addictions and what grief they brought to her life.

She has stood strong, fought, dug in deep and buried the one eyed monster. She has let the angels sing to her, opened her heart for healing not only herself but so many others. I honor her as well and am proud to call her friend, she has stood by me and given me encouragement to write.

I write of sorrows, abuse, addictions, hurt and pain inflicted by others upon the children. Thank you Sligo for coming forth to give accolades to this lady of mercy. Blessings to you my friend.

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sligobay Hub Author 11 months ago

Thank you Ken for sharing my respect and admiration for the Queen of the Rainbow Galaxy, Kimberly.

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kimberlyslyrics Level 6 Commenter 11 months ago

knowledge is in the end based on acknowledgement. that's like the same word twice almost.

scratches stallion long soft head of hair

hmmmm........

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sligobay Hub Author 11 months ago

Hail Queen Kimberly of the realm of the Rainbow Galaxy.

Long may she live. Long may she reign!

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schoolgirlforreal Level 5 Commenter 11 months ago

:) smiles

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sligobay Hub Author 11 months ago

Smiles and hugs back at ya.

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schoolgirlforreal Level 5 Commenter 11 months ago

I really like this hub :)

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kimberlyslyrics Level 6 Commenter 11 months ago

wanted to be in my safe galaxy today, think I'll hang here awhile

Thank you

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sligobay Hub Author 11 months ago

Feel safe in your Rainbow Galaxy where only love and peace exist. Hugs Kimberly.

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kimberlyslyrics Level 6 Commenter 10 months ago

needed my galaxy again

sniff

ok fine I just love the attention, happy then?

still staying

just saying...........

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kimberlyslyrics Level 6 Commenter 10 months ago

slig

think I'm confused again something about the price of nerve gas? beats me - pain in the neck, let ya know when I figure it out 'k?

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sligobay Hub Author 10 months ago

Lyrics

Searching the universal for the specific

Accepting reversal in lieu of terrific

Voyageur traversing Canadian woodlands

Explorer uplifting Palladium rock bands.

sligobay

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kimberlyslyrics Level 6 Commenter 10 months ago

Hey neato must be some lumberjacks

fixing our rocks with the crack

sad they have no hands

But how cool they're in rock bands

Not so confused now

I see the universe is how

we float wow holy cow

hugs

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sligobay Hub Author 10 months ago

SAVE_ I wrote you an acrostic poem where the first letter in each line spell out the word SAVE. I knew that you would love the rock bands reference. Voyageur is a specific Canadian reference - try dictionary.com - its a great term with a greater meaning which may metaphorically relate to you, Kimberly. Wow, Holy Cow, I totally missed that myself!

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kimberlyslyrics Level 6 Commenter 10 months ago

Confucius say

man with pelvic thrust to trim is crazier than timmy tim tim

keep up those Voyageur preparations and you'll never get skyped by creation?????????

I impress myself constantly with my own language

I am the lamest in the land so give me a hand

very entertaining

a standing ovation

should you want an encore

I check emails between yoga

or I mean yoda

appreciate your write, oh wise master

kymberly gay

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sligobay Hub Author 10 months ago

Kimberly - I know that you did not take the time to look up voyageur, yet. Lame is the new cool if that's what you are. I am so happy to have my computer back and be online but I am so backed up with work.

I just spoke with my cousin, Mary, who celebrated 16 years sober yesterday, 7/7, just one day at a time. Time takes time. I read some of your new Hubs and will get to the others on the weekend. Hugs.

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kimberlyslyrics Level 6 Commenter 10 months ago

Mary is the lamest for sure then

of course I didn't look it up yet as I am a well versed extremely sought after creative and mind blowing writer-I have little time even if time is time, but I must add I love how time stops for me here on this hub in my galaxy, oh my agent on the other line

ps- only googled myself twice today, but under all 6 names, I think soon I shall be more famous than the internet

don't be jealous, I'll let you stay on but not helmet head

pee

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sligobay Hub Author 10 months ago

Fame is such a fleeting pain

And its price is privacy;

Public glare bares harsh disdain

Which rarely rests on decency.

sligobay

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kimberlyslyrics Level 6 Commenter 10 months ago

yo

that's thee smallest thing I have ever seen go to someones head

ah I'm cracking myself up here

not crack the crack rather the cracking not mistaken for crackling

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sligobay Hub Author 10 months ago

Yo Yo maybe I'm slow

No No play me sum mo

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kimberlyslyrics Level 6 Commenter 10 months ago

then you gotta bring it down low low low

shake that bootie slow slow slow

oh...................

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sligobay Hub Author 5 months ago

Merry Christmas to all.

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kimberlyslyrics Level 6 Commenter 5 months ago

I so love you buddy!

merry christmas-I'll be off line for a bit but my i phone may save me

have to cut back time here due to workload on books

kisses

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sligobay Hub Author 5 months ago

Merry Christmas to my heroine and the never-ending struggle against addiction.

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